Know that this is not part of the scheme I am trying to employ in this blog. More of a personal nature, I shall let the title speak for itself.This concerns a certain topic that has taught me a lot more about life. Of course, I am talking about love. I sometimes wonder if there should be a norm for what feelings we should have. Come on friend, don't you sometimes question yourself if what you're feeling is the right one or not? Most of us rarely get an answer though, because we've got more important things to worry about, like passing Physics :-) . But on the other hand, the fact that we're giving it thought and it on the other hand giving us worries, its already clear enough that this has to have some meaning. And that meaning may either make us experience heaven, flying as high as we can imagine, or it could dampen the very essence of living life. You see, some of us allow ourselves to be affected by something that shouldn't be. And I admit, I was one of them, and I'm making this post in the hope of maybe, just maybe, you may be guided and not find yourself in the same rut I was.
In life, we usually do our routine. Wake up, go to school, come home, sleep, and repeat the whole process again, not including the eating and joking around in between them. But that will greatly change, not because you won the lottery or anything, but because you've found yourself falling for another person of the opposite sex. This gets an even major emphasis in the event that it is still youzr first time. You find yourself somehow floating in clouds every time you see each other, and most especially when you go together. You see friend, it is but natural. Do not feel anything against yourself, for it is part of nature's way of saying that you are growing up. And in this regard, the decisions and principles you follow at this stage are very critical in dealing with how you will be seeing this as you mature. Here are some tips that might help:
- Never overreact to your feelings.
- Be mature enough not only to handle your feelings well, but to also not disregard what responsibilities you have, especially your own life.
- Remember that your supposed loved one is part of your life, NOT YOUR WHOLE LIFE. Simply give time for yourself too. If you're too in love already, lay back and try to think of yourself for even just a bit.
- Know that oftentimes, people who get into relationships this early in their lives do it for the reason that they can use their 'partner' for something else, e.g., helping in Science, or being with someone who is materially blessed.
- In the case of a break-up, wherein the supposed love-of-your-life leaves you for dead and runs around with some other person, try to stop and think. If you did nothing wrong in the relationship, then you deserve someone better. There are around 6 billion other people in the world. Saying that you can't find any other is quite ridiculous, for you surely will.
- Control the relationship, don't let it control you. Some relationships actually destroy the life and principles of someone who has tried his/her very best to achieve such. Trust me, there are.
- Lastly, never say that someone you were with means nothing to you know, because for sure, for in one way or another, he/she has taught you to become the better person you are today.
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I got this icebox where my heart used to be.
1 comment:
ga emo si ruffy. hala cge. kai hadlok ka mag blog ruff. layu ra daw kai ku mu suwat. kaila kag ga dugo2 nnjug akung ilong smu words? haha.
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